Thursday, September 20, 2007

Rant: Guys I tend to date

So tell me whether you seem to have this problem as badly as I do. Guys who get attached after the FIRST DATE. Okay, here's the thing, if I'm into it, I'll contact you, if I'm not, then I won't. Take a hint.
What confuses me the most is when they act as if I'm breaking up with them after dating for years, and "Oh my god! How could you? You broke my heart!". Here's the thing, you don't know me, and I don't know you. But apparently I know enough about you to not want to date you. Now for whatever reason that might be, just deal.
I don't mean to sound harsh, but HONESTLY. Most people can take a hint, but then there are those few who can't. And that is really the worst of it. I'm not really sure how else to put it.
Everyone puts their best foot forwards on a first date, and I am certainly not the type of person to be mean just because I'm not into you, I'll try to make it enjoyable no matter what, there is no reason to waste an evening just because we don't hit things off.
I'm not generally a mean person, but I don't have time to fuck around and date guys that I don't see any future with. I'm not going to date you just to save hurting your feelings, because there is really no point.

I need a guy who can be laid back, and chill out, and not e-stalk me.
Where ARE those guys?

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